Can I Have a Paternity Test Done While Pregnant?
I am 20 weeks pregnant today, and have been going through many trials and tribulations with my ex. He has moved on and is in another relationship. Which is fine with me. However he has really giving me his ass to kiss though this whole ordeal.
He first stated that I wasn’t pregnant, and now that he can clearly see that I am. He is screaming it’s not his child. I am hurt because the last six years of my life I have been there for him. I mean through thick and thin.
And this is how he repays me. He has never been to one prenatal visit. I ask him to take me to the grocery store for WIC and other misc items, and he never shows.
I can’t wait until December to have a paternity test done. I am in a state where I have no family. Limited friends, and I need help. Truth be told I didn’t make this baby on my own, so why should I have to go through this alone.
I can however support my baby by myself. I’m just scared because I suffer from epilepsy, and have been having seizures more often.
I feel like he is looking for any reason not to be a man. I’m not asking him to leave his girlfriend. I’m just asking for him to step up and handle his responsibliteis as a man, and soon to be father.
I confronted him in front of his current girlfriend, and he flipped out and threatended me stating he will hit me etc.
Any information will be helpful..
Well I have a prenatal visit Wed and I’m going to further discuss this with my obgyn. I’ve been googling information, and it’s saying that it can be done. So I’ll see what my doc has to say.
Well I have a prenatal visit Wed and I’m going to further discuss this with my obgyn. I’ve been googling information, and it’s saying that it can be done. So I’ll see what my doc has to say.
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It is possible to get a paternity test while you are pregnant. However it is VERY dangerous for the baby. It is done through Amniocentesis in which a small amount of amniotic fluid (10ml) is withdrawn from a needle put through your belly. There are many risks involved in this procedure and it is also VERY expensive. I would not recommend it. Nothing is worth putting your child in danger.
It may be hard but you have to stay strong for your baby. Many men do not step up to the plate but that just means you have to take two steps yourself. Once the baby is born you will do the test and your ex will have to help you out. But for now, just take care of yourself as well as you can alone. Remember your baby is depending on YOU. no one else. Good luck & i wish you the best