A close friend of mine and I slept together about a year ago when she was visiting for the first time since moving to London. She discovered she was pregnant some time after, but wasn’t sure if it was me or another guy who was the father.

At that time, I was okay with doing a paternity test to figure things out, but since then, my mother has passed away, leaving me to watch after my two little brothers (one 13, one 7) with my live-in, long-term girlfriend. It’s kind of like they are our children.

I’m worried about what my girlfriend may think of me, what she may think of the other girl and how stressful it could be knowing I have a baby girl in the world and very little I can do to help her or her mother, but I’m also worried about having that baby girl growing up without knowing who her father is. They will be visiting next week, and I’m considering doing a paternity test.

It could stir up a lot of drama and stress, or it could do nothing.
What do you think is best here?

Everything is going well with everyone at the moment without knowing this information. Should we leave well enough alone, or just get to the bottom of it already?

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